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Service Week 3

Sunday, November 16th, 2008

There are many reasons why we don’t choose to serve when we should. Over the next few weeks we will be looking at some of these reasons. This week we will be looking at timidity. This is the one I struggle with the most. Sometimes we see the need, we want to fulfill it, but we just can’t work ourselves up to doing it. We talk ourselves out of it by saying things like “the person probably wouldn’t really want the help”, or “if they needed help they would ask,” or “I wouldn’t do a good job helping anyway”.the list could go on forever. We are afraid to get out of our comfort zones and DO something. I read somewhere that “faith is action based on belief.” James says faith without action is dead. When we let out timidity keep us from serving, we are weakening our faith. We are putting our desire for comfort over our desire for Christlikeness.

“Spiritual maturity is directly proportional to Christ-centeredness. To be more preoccupied with the subjective benefits of the faith than with the person and pleasure of Christ is a mark of immaturity. The Spirit bears witness to and glorifies Jesus Christ; spiritual experiences, whether personal or corporate, should center on Christ and not ourselves. The tendency of some people and movements to glorify the gifts of the Giver more than the Giver of the gifts is incompatible with Biblical portrait of the ministry of the Holy Spirit”- Kenneth Boa Conformed to His Image, p.294

Every day this week I would like us to serve someone we don’t know. This may be something as simple as letting someone on the tram ahead of you or as time consuming as walking with someone to carry their basket. I know, that we are not always in control of the opportunities for service, especially when we are serving people who are unknown to us. But, I believe that if we look and pray for these opportunities, they will present themselves. This assignment will call all of us to step out of our comfort zones and look toward other people. I pray that good results from these acts of service and that good will spur us on to greater boldness for His Kingdom.

So, your assignment:

-Pray for service opportunities

-Daily serve someone you don’t know

-Bring a list of these services to the next meeting

Service Week 1

Friday, October 17th, 2008

We have been practicing these spiritual Disciplines for a while now, and I think it would behoove us to take a step back and remember why exactly we are doing this. What is our motivation for wanting to practice these?
“When it comes to discipline in the Christian life, many believers feel it’s discipline without direction. Prayer threatens to be drudgery. The practical value of meditation on Scripture seems uncertain. The real purpose of a discipline like fasting is unclear.
Discipline without direction is drudgery. But the Spiritual Disciplines are never drudgery as long as we practice them with the goal of Godliness in mind. If your picture of a disciplined Christian is one of a grim, tight-lipped, joyless half-robot, then you’ve missed the point. Jesus was the most disciplined Man who ever lived and yet the most joyful and passionately alive. He is our Example of discipline. Let us follow Him to joy through the Spiritual Disciplines”
Donald S. Whitney Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life
Are we serving people, just so that more people are served? While serving people is good, it should not be our motivation. Our motivation should be Godliness. (1 Timothy 4:7)
So this first week, I want all of us to stop and think “what is the point?” I would like us all to come up with some personal goals related to these next two months of focused service. What do you personally want to accomplish? What do you want to learn? How are you serving right now? What are you doing that is service to others and God?
I also want us to spend this week with open eyes looking for ways in which to serve. I think it will surprise us how many different ways exist to serve others and God. As we go about our daily routines, I want to challenge us to look for simple ways to serve others. (Carrying a grocery bag, helping someone with their stroller, allowing someone to serve us, sending a note to someone, encouraging, inviting someone over…) I am not talking about going out and joining a service organization or trying to organize a massive project. I am talking about little things that all of us can do several times a day with little planning. As we go through these next 2 months the service will become more focused, but this first week I just want us to go about our normal days with our eyes open looking for service opportunities. Then on Friday, we will come together to discuss all of the opportunities. The purpose of this exercise is for all of us to realize how many opportunities there are, if we are willing to take them. Through this, I hope that our mundane daily activities will be transformed into opportunities to serve.
So, for Friday I would like all of us to come with a list of all the opportunities for service that you saw this week, whether you did the service or not. Please also come with a few personal goals related to service. Also, as we go through this study, please start each day by praying for open eyes and service opportunities.

Fasting Quote #1

Thursday, August 7th, 2008

“Superficiality is the curse of our age. The doctrine of instant satisfaction is a primary spiritual problem. The desperate need today is not for a greater number of intelligent people, or gifted people, but for deep people. The classical disciplines of the spiritual life call us to move beyond surface living into the depths. They invite us to explore the inner caverns of the spiritual realm. They urge us to be the answer to a hollow world. John Woolman counsels, ‘It is good for thee to dwell deep, that thou mayest feel and understand the spirits of people.’ We must not be led to believe that the Disciplines are only for spiritual giants and hence beyond our reach, or only for contemplatives who devote all their time to prayer and meditation. Far from it. God intends the Disciplines of the spiritual life to be for ordinary human beings: people who have jobs, who care for children, who wash dishes and mow lawns. In fact, the Disciplines are best exercised in the midst of our relationships with our husband or wife, brothers and sisters, our friends and neighbors… The primary requirement is a longing after God.” “Celebration of Discipline” Richard Foster.

An Invitation

Friday, February 8th, 2008

To anyone out there who keeps up with our blog, we invite you to participate with us in the various spiritual discipline projects we’ll be doing over the years. Right now our focus is praiseworthy speech (see the previous post). Please follow along; share your thoughts, reflections and experiences via comments; and even consider participating in the project in your own lives and faith communities.

We look forward to hearing from you!

Praiseworthy Speech Project

Friday, February 8th, 2008

Let the PSProject begin!

Over the next three months we’re going to take a journey of discovery together, going deeper into what it means to live as citizens of God’s Kingdom, into what it means to make the good news of salvation real and tangible in the here and now. Specifically, we’ll be pondering and practicing Kingdom speech. This won’t be an easy journey, but along the way we’ll experience the good news transforming us and giving us and those around us life. We’ll gain wisdom — “the expression of cumulated experience” — from what we go through and will thus have a story to share with others — about how Jesus is making a difference in our faith community, our individual lives, our attitudes, our speech and how he invites others to join in as well. Rather than just theory, we’ll have witness to share out of something we’re actually doing.

But before we pursue the good news, what’s the bad news? Well, it’s clear that speech and communication have been used for less than life-giving purposes. We humans use words to hurt, manipulate, gain the upper hand, humiliate, gossip, make fun, embarrass, degrade, devalue, lie, deceive, weaken, divide, serve our own ends. Words are powerful; we’ve all felt their power for both good and bad.

To quote JD from Scrubs, “Sticks and stones may breaks my bones … but words will hurt forever.”

Thus, according to professor Mark Love, “in an age of debased and abusive speech, the call of the Kingdom is to let our ‘yes’ be ‘yes’ and our ‘no’ be ‘no.’ In contrast to gossip, slander, and other forms of speech that protect self-interest at the expense of others, praise and blessing fill the world with God’s life-giving word. Suggestive possibilities here include Paul’s description of his own speech in 2 Corinthians which seem to be tied to his experience of God’s resurrecting power, or the Psalms persistent claim that the throats of evildoers are open graves, while the righteous have the fruit of praise constantly on their lips. It would not be difficult to describe how this Kingdom way greatly contrasts with our own public discourse.”

This is our project, to seek to make the Kingdom value of praiseworthy speech a way of life. How should the paradigm of Jesus’ death and resurrection — of giving up power, privilege, and life in order to give life to others and to gain true life for ourselves — shape our speech? How would ‘dying to self’ change the way we communicate with people? How did Jesus use words and communication in his ministry? What does it mean to tell the truth? What kind of power do words have — to create, to destroy? How does praiseworthy speech require and create community? We’ll be thinking about these and other questions over the next few months. Here’s what our project will look like…

Summary of activities:

  • Commitment & Practice. As a team and individuals we’re committing to practice praiseworthy speech. That was an obvious one, wasn’t it? See below for more on making the commitment.
  • Reflection Papers. We’ll be writing one-page reflection papers about every other week, including…
    • Description of personal commitment to project
    • Reflection on PS as evidenced in life & ministry of Jesus and in death & resurrection of Jesus
    • How PS is or isn’t evident in our cultural context (Czech and/or American).
    • How does this way of life require and create community. What kind of community does PS create?
    • Find a conversation partner (song lyric, poem, short story, movie clip, etc.) that (even if secular) has a connection with speech, the use of the tongue, the power of words. Reflect on it for five days during one week. Think of it as stream of consciousness conversation — start with the source and let it take you wherever you go. Type thoughts for each day.
  • Reading materials. We’ll alternate our reflection papers with readings related to PS. These may include…
    • “Tell Me About Yourself: What Is Language?,” from Of Cigarettes, High Heels, and Other Interesting Things: An Introduction to Semiotics by Marcel Danesi, 65-90.
    • “Talking Ourselves Into Being Christians,” from Testimony: Talking Ourselves Into Being Christian by Thomas G. Long, 3-20.
    • “Sunday Words,” from Testimony: Talking Ourselves Into Being Christian by Thomas G. Long, 39-63.
    • “Walking the Walk, Talking the Talk,” from Testimony: Talking Ourselves Into Being Christian by Thomas G. Long, 89-108.
    • “Taking Time for Fluency,” from Live to Tell: Evangelism for a Postmodern Age by Brad J. Kallenberg, 65-89.
    • Two sections (Scripture: The Story We Enact // Worship: The Story Reenacted) in “How Then Should We Live?,” from Seeking a Lasting City: The Church’s Journey in the Story of God by Mark Love, Douglas A. Foster, and Randall J. Harris, 187-190 // 194-200.
    • Two sections from Beth Moore’s study book Believing God, one about the power of words and the other about how we receive words whether good or bad, true or untrue.
    • Portions of Liberating Evangelism: Gospel, Theology, and the Dynamics of Communication by Stephen K. Pickard.
    • Various portions of Scripture, specifically chapters from Ephesians and Colossians.
  • Discussions. We’ll try to take a few minutes during our Friday prayer times to discuss our reflections, readings, and how the PSProject is going in general. How it is difficult? How it is good news? Plus, feel free to discuss these things at any time, not just on Friday mornings.
  • Blog quotes & reflections. Twice a week we’ll be posting various quotes related to PS / the tongue / the power of words to create & destroy / communication. In addition, we’ll be posting some of our personal reflections and notes.
  • Accountability. It can be easy to forget from day to day that we’re supposed to be practicing praiseworthy speech. So, let’s commit to remind each other and hold each other accountable. When Graham and I participated in a similar project (ours was focused on peace) in our Narrative Evangelism class at ACU, whenever one of us would say or do something which wasn’t peaceful, the other would say, “I’m not at peace with that.” It was a light-hearted way to call the other back into focus. Perhaps we could have similar phrases for each other, both positive and negative: “Now that’s praiseworthy!” OR “I can’t praise that!”
  • Lord’s Prayer. Try to say the Lord’s Prayer at least once every day. May it shape our attitudes and our speech. May His Kingdom come and His will be done — in our lives, in Olomouc, in the world.

Other possibilities for bonus points… :)

  • Worship. Feel free to incorporate PS into our worship times together.
  • PSPresentation. Our group’s final assignment for the peace project at ACU was to put together a presentation to share the good news of Christ’s death and resurrection as it is taking shape in our community’s life via a specific Kingdom practice. We used multimedia, testimonies, drama, handouts, etc. to share our story with others in a coffeehouse atmosphere. It was intended to start the conversation (rather than ending it), inviting others to join us in the discussion of how to best embody this Kingdom value in our communities. We could consider doing something similar at the end of our project.

First assignment — One-page commitment paper.

Finally, here’s your first assignment. Reflect over the next few days about what praiseworthy speech is and how you want to embody it in your life. Don’t feel like you have to limit yourself to just words — communication includes tone, gestures, expressions, writing, etc. After pondering the project, write a one-page paper describing your commitment to pursue this practice over the next few months. Feel free to come back to this paper and edit it as our project progresses; our various readings and discussions may bring new insights.

I think it’s going to be a good and transformative few months! May God be with us.

Word,
Mitch

P.S. To see more about our Peace Project at ACU and to see some of my reflection papers, check out the following links on my blog — post 1, post 2, post 3, post 4.